Parents and Caregivers:

Talking with Your Teen

“How do I start the Talk?”

Will your teen come to you with questions about sex? Learn ways to help facilitate conversation with your teen about sex. 

Teens report that the people they most want to hear from about birth control, relationships and sex is their parents!

Below we have listed some publications and conversation aides for you and your teen. Remember, this is not a one time conversation and is most effective when it takes place on a frequent (and regular) basis. At EyesOpenIowa we like to say, “Start the Talk and then keep the Conversation Going”. The most important thing a parent or caregiver can do is listen! Be supportive and encourage your teen to come to you with any questions or concerns, even the tough stuff! Here are some things to keep in mind:

• Use teachable moments
• Be present and give your teen your full attention
• Provide factual information
• Stress safety and love